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Family Time Part II

“Johnny Depp was in town today. He was promoting that Dillinger movie.”

“Oh yeah?”

“Yep, and he said that he loves Chicago. Thinks it is the best city in the world.”

“Wow. Does he want to move here? If he needs a place to stay, then he can sleep in our bedroom.”

“WHAT?!.”

“I meant guest bedroom.”

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I seriously meant the guest bedroom. No, really. I wonder if he is a good roommate. Does he like egg sandwiches and coffee? Would we eat on the porch? Does he put the seat down? Would he cuddle an insane banshee of a cat before bed at the expense of his ability to breathe? Would he go get me eggs in a blizzard? Probably not. I think that I will stick with the current roomate.

Rosemary

Rosemary is one of my favorite herbs and I use it almost daily. It reminds me of Sooke Harbour, where we got married. Our room was at garden level and had tons of rosemary bushes just outside the door. The only thing I would have changed about the ceremony is my bouquet, which would have been make completely out of rosemary sprigs.

Pre-ceremony rosemary face-plant.

Pre-ceremony rosemary face-plant.

Here is this year’s plant that I got at Thursday’s farmer’s market. Its new home is an old tin canister that I had lying around. It would be nice to have a complete window herb garden planted in various vintage tins. It has been added to my list of things that may or may not ever be accomplished.

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The only problem is the orphaned tin lid. I suppose i could put a bunch on the wall and have a nice collage somewhere. Add it to the list.

The only problem is the orphaned tin lid. I suppose I could put a bunch on the wall and have a nice collage somewhere. Add it to the list.

Fast+Easy+Healthy+Delicious

Yesterday was not great in terms of weather or commuting. Someone was actually clipping their nails on the train. It was a loud, thick-nailed, super nasty kind of clipping sound. This went on for at least 15 minutes!?!? Did they get done with the hands and move to the feet? I didn’t dare look twice, because the first whip-around-and-glare move did nothing more than heat up my irritation further. I had to move cars for my sanity and the nail clipper’s safety.I won’t even talk about the commute home. It was too dreadful to revisit.

Yesterday morning was also wet and stormy, so I had to change my initial couch to 5k training to a Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday schedule. And did that happen this morning? NO. It is still raining. Bummer. Now I have to go treadmill it at lunch. Luckily, one of the perks at work is a company gym complete with laundry service. Not too shabby.

One thing that I have been successful at in the last week is eating healthier. I haven’t gone off the deep end into the pool of strict and irrational eating which I have done before; but better choices have been made. I will call it eating with awareness, not dieting. Part of this awareness means that you have to acknowledge the human need for a treat now and then. Last night, I tricked myself into thinking I had pizza. It was amazing.

All you need is whole wheat pita pockets, and some fresh toppings that you love. Keep them intact for a fluffy crust or peel open the pocket to create two very crisp crusts for the pizza. I added heirloom tomatoes, pesto, basil, and fresh mozzarella. And for Justin, arugula, prosciutto, and Parmesan. Then just bake them for about 5 minutes at 375 or 400 degrees. Very easy and very good.

After his first helping, Justin took his plate back to the kitchen to load it in the dishwasher. When he flipped the lights on in the kitchen, he yelped something unintelligible when he saw the sight of an extra cookie sheet of mini pizzas. I think it would be weeks and weeks before he would complain about eating pizza, even if he ate it for every meal, every day. Needless to say, this was his DPH.

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Yeah, not the healthiest thing I have eaten all week, but if this is the most sinful thing I have done, my penance is not a big deal.

Yeah, not the healthiest thing I have eaten all week. If this is the most sinful thing I have done, my penance is not a big deal.

Pursuit of Happiness

I think I mentioned that we picked up an old game of Trivial Pursuit when we went to Door County last weekend. I now carry around a little stack of the cards in my purse, because you just never know when you might need a little Pursuit. I’ve also been informed that if I had an iPhone, this would not be neccessary, but until then I will keep them in my heavy bag of tricks.

This weekend’s weather called for the first summer visit to the Hopleaf’s beer garden. It is only a few blocks from our place, and is one of my favorite summer spots to pass the time.

Gigantic man paws with the fancy kwak glass. Justin always looks miserable during our patio dining shots, but I assure you he was enjoying himself.

Gigantic man paws with a fancy Kwak glass. Justin always looks miserable during our patio dining shots, but I assure you he was enjoying himself.

Hopleaf Frites. Do not attempt to deny yourself of these. The dipping sauce is divine.

Hopleaf Frites. Do not attempt to deny yourself this pleasure. The dipping sauce is divine.

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So we are sitting in the perfect temperature, on the perfect patio, eating our perfect frites and sipping beers. The trivial pursuit cards are being played. The question “What do Las Vegas blackjack dealers stand on” comes up. I sit and think about how their legs must get tired. And I think about the gel mats that bartenders get to stand on. Then I answer “little podiums or pedestals.” I was pretty confident. Justin is horrified. The answer was “17″ of course.  :(

I love being able to walk home from places. Getting in the car would ruin it for me. How else would I get to admire my husband's calf muscles. I have some crazy calf muscles as well. Our babies are going to have serious legs.

Here is Justin on the walk home after we couldn't eat another frite or drink another beer. I love being able to walk home from our adventures. Getting in the car would ruin it for me. How else would I get to admire my husband's calf muscles? I have some crazy calf muscles as well. Our babies are going to have serious legs.

Burst.

Burst.

Two Days To Go

Justin is taking finals for two more days and then we are going on a vacation.

I have mentioned this before, but this is the first time we will have gone on a trip alone in our 6 years together. No visiting family–although we love family (hi and hello, family). No visiting friends. Just a regular vacation. I hear this is a good thing. I get a burst of excitement every time I look at the place we are staying. Happy birthday to me!

Now we just need to get through the next two days. Luckily, I have been working on a new project at work with a team I don’t normally work with. So I am having fun and staying busy which always makes the time fly. I would take a picture of what I am doing as my DPH, but then I would have to kill you. So here are some of Porpus in a blanket cave and on the coffee table instead.

I had forgotten how delicious long-exposure with a side of flash is. I will be exploring this more...although it makes the subject of the photo appear drunk 99% of the time.

I had forgotten how delicious a long-exposure with a side of flash can be. I will be exploring this more...although it makes the subject of the photo appear drunk 99% of the time.

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Here is a photoshop mash-up painting as well.

Perspective

Yesterday was a turd of a day. Could have done without it.

Fortunately, because I sometimes have trouble “living in the moment,” a bad day can seem less so. Because I am looking forward to some upcoming events or goodness, the climb from the bottom of my mood cave is less steep. Stuff is gross and bad sometimes, but quickly moving on is vital to my mental health. And never once has Justin put me down when I am already in the bottom of a bucket. He hangs a little rope over the edge and encourages me to grab it. Even if I don’t want to, cause I feel like wallowing my bad mood bucket, it is nice to see my escape routes.

A couple things gave me a better perspective on my day after arriving home last night.

This is my home computer. NEVER has it opened a PPT slide. It doesn't even have that capability. It is the happiest machine I have ever worked on.

This is my home computer. NEVER has it opened a PPT slide. It doesn't even have that capability. It is the happiest machine I have ever worked on.

I am looking forward to a four-day Texas wedding weekend. My friend is starting a styling business and is putting together a fabulous fashion plan for me and said weekend. Here is a sneak peak of one of the star items.

I am looking forward to a four-day Texas wedding weekend. My friend is starting a styling business and is putting together a fabulous fashion plan for me and said weekend. Here is a sneak peak of one of the star items.

I haven't uploaded a lily is a week or so. This one is making the kitchen smell good. Since I am a Preacher's kid, sometimes bible verses pop into my head at interesting times. There is one about birds not needing to wear clothes that mades a lot of sense yesterday.

I haven't uploaded a lily in a week or so. This one is making the kitchen smell good. Kind of reminds me of church somehow. Since I am a Preacher's kid, sometimes bible verses pop into my head at interesting times. There is one about birds not needing to wear clothes that made a lot of sense yesterday.

HA. I DIED LAUGHING when I saw this. This is from my office. Click image for the full story.

HA. I DIED LAUGHING when I saw this. This is from my office. Click image for the full story.

That last image links you to a co-worker’s blog that I just discovered last night. I am happy to see that there are cupcake recipes. I plan on cornering her at the water cooler and forcing my friendship upon her. Sounds like an HR violation waiting to happen.

Getting Rid of Stuff

Throwing stuff out, cleaning out closets, and donating old clothes are one of my favorite household activities. It is also a very Spring thing to do. I am quite the opposite of a pack-rat, and do not like becoming crowded with stuff. One of my top anxieties about having kids some day is all the STUFF that goes with it. This is most apparent to me in airports. I see families trying to keep track of about 17 pieces of luggage and a car seat and trying to remove tiny shoes for the metal detectors…it makes my heart pound…Anyway, if you are attached to old “stuff,” I will gladly come over and tell you 10 reasons to move on. I will even help you get over things you are keeping because you have major guilt every time you even think about getting rid of it. It is JUST STUFF. Other people actually need it. You likely don’t. I promise you won’t miss it and you will have more room to breathe.

That being said, I got rid of some things from our closet this weekend, and I couldn’t be happier about. If you want them, they are available to you at Brown Elephant on Clark at a very low price. Let it be known that I have NEVER missed anything that was donated. Ever. Especially when they are my husband’s old clothes.

*Insert giddy crazy-lady laugh.*

*Insert image of crazy-bag-lady running along Ashland with a bag of faded relaxed fit jeans from the late 90′s.*

Justin has a new wardrobe–thanks to a successful–but exhausting trip to State Street. He was thrilled to discover that Nordstrom Rack, H&M, Macy’s, and TJ Maxx are located on the same block. We have never shopped like that, and probably won’t again for awhile. He will be looking good until he has to wear suits to work…which I don’t envy. He is actually OK with that idea, which is reason #459385725 that he has found his perfect career. If I had to wear suits to work, I might just wither up and die. I like to dress nicely for work, but could wear–and have worn–cat slippers and a blanket to the office and no one bats an eyelash. I think there are some companies where PANTYHOSE is required?!? Ugh.

After the wardrobe overhaul on Friday, we decided that on Saturday we would head up to Evanston via the 10 minute ride on the Metra. Evanston has a pretty nice downtown area, and I much prefer going up there to see a movie than traveling into the Loop to fight the tourists. Don’t think this means we are in love with the suburbs and will be packing up our apt to head north anytime soon. I’m just saying that Evanston is a nice surprise as far as suburbs go. Yeah, I like a suburb. There, I said it. The day was sunny and consisted of wonderful things like bread-bowl soup, travel books about Italy, 3-d movie going, pet stores, wood oven fired pizza, and perfect train timing.

Here are the weekend photo updates:

These are Justin's Legs. Yeah those are dark-wash jeans that aren't dragging on the ground. And Cole Haans! I <3 Nordstrom Rack.

These really are Justin's legs. Yeah those are dark-wash jeans that aren't dragging on the ground. And Cole Haans! I <3 Nordstrom Rack.

The suburbs can have a nice texture to them. Chicago can't hog it all.

The suburbs can have a nice texture to them. Chicago can't hog it all.

Well hello there. This little man was in the pet shop window across from Union Pizzeria. We call him chicken turtle. Watch the video below with the sound to learn why.

Well hello there. This little man was in the pet shop window across from Union Pizzeria. We call him chicken turtle. Watch the video below with the sound to learn why.

Turtle Wants Tomato.

Awww. They look like they might be good pets. Um, I had a couple as a kid and they don't do a lot. My Flopsy bunny died on Easter morning. There you have it.

Awww. They look like they might be good pets, don't they? Um, I had a couple as a kid and they don't do a whole lot. My Flopsy bunny died on Easter morning. There you have it.

Union Pizzeria has high ceilings, large windows and interesting lighting. But the PIZZA...

Union Pizzeria has high ceilings, large windows and interesting lighting. But the PIZZA...

..the pizza is to die for.

..the pizza is to die for.

One of the best parts of the weekend. Justin pointed these out to me. Which means he has been paying a lot of attention to what makes me happy. <3

One of the best parts of the weekend. Justin pointed these out to me. Which means he has been paying a lot of attention to what makes me happy. <3

Things I Need to Get Over

I am the way I am because I was raised well. Thanks, Mom. But no thanks to the inherited buyer’s remorse. This is something I’m trying to overcome. Sometimes the guilt about a purchase is so bad that I will take the items back because I can’t handle it. This is getting better, but I still have to defend my purchase to myself with a well organized argument including no less than three indisputable facts that support the purchase.

Often, I will be standing in the living room showing off my new things to Justin, defending each item before even pulling it out of the shopping bag to show off the cuteness of the new shoe/skirt/accessory. Justin doesn’t have this buyer’s remorse problem. He also doesn’t see why I am defending the purchases to him. My husband doesn’t care if I come home with new things. He doesn’t lecture me on shoe purchases. He is never the reason for the returns. He always has the proper reaction to my treasures from a shopping adventure. He knows me and my buyers remorse struggle very well, and has never furthered this guilt in any way. Reason #4545748392 that he is my better half.

This being said, I bought new shoes!

  • Reason 1: I have had the same pair of (wonderful) beaten up loafers for two years. I wear them everyday unless it is warm enough to wear the cute green flats or sandals.
  • Reason 2: I never buy new shoes. When I do it is a struggle not to get them at Payless or TJ Maxx. Payless is not good for the feet and they tend not to be made well. Duh. You get what you pay for.
  • Reason 3: I am a women in her mid-twenties that wears salt-eaten shoes to work nearly everyday. Why? They are comfortable. I also tend to wear shoes until they are worn out. But that is seriously ridiculous. Especially when I can actually afford to get new ones more than every 2 years. And maybe even have a choice between more than one shoe.
They really are the best pair. I will probably still wear them. Rockport makes good stuff.

They really are the best pair. I will probably still wear them. Rockport makes good stuff.

Stacy and Clinton would slap me.

Stacy and Clinton would slap me.

Oh my god, shoes.

Oh my god, shoes.

These shoes rule.

These shoes rule.

The bargain of the bunch. Some italian designer. I won't share the sale price I got them for, but they were originally 400 bucks. They feel that good on the foot. Payless weeps.

The bargain of the bunch. Some italian designer. I won't share the sale price I got them for, but they were originally 400 bucks. They feel that good on the foot. Payless weeps.

New loafers! I love these because the inside feels like butter. We all know I am a big fan of butter.

New loafers! I love these because the inside feels like butter. We all know I am a big fan of butter.

The Good Dog

Have you met our dog?

That is Justin's leg she is using as a pillow/bed.

That is Justin's leg she is using as a pillow/bed.

Porpus is such a good dog. She is very loyal, too. She will greet you at the door, bark when she wants to be let out, understands commands, and comes when she is called. Fetch is her favorite game. If you go to a different room, she will be at your heels. If you are relaxing on the couch, she will be at your side, or on your lap. If she is being naughty, she knows it and will cower. When you leave for the day, she will cry at the door. She is a good dog.

If you are more of a cat person, Schween is your lady. Here she is in the den/office. We call this Schween’s “office hours.”

Inspecing the underverse of the futon, then going beneath.

Inspecting the underverse of the futon, then going beneath.

Schween holds office hours from 9–7. She will break for lunch.

Schween holds office hours from 9–7. She will break for lunch.

She is a cat. What more can I say about that. We love her, too.

The spice cupboard that scared the crap out of you organized/anal folks is being organized! I just bought about 50 glass jars ranging from 1.5–12 ounces from this place. Woot! In the mean time, I have at least organized the cupboard in preparation for the jar arrival. The spices are now in alphabetical order and I have already saved myself 10 minutes of frantic cupboard searching when I need Cumin.

This is not the "after" shot. But I was taught in art school to show progress work. Here you go.

This is not the "after" shot. But I was taught in art school to show progress work. Here you go.

Matching Outfits

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Aren’t they precious in their matching attire? We should go to Sears immediately and get a family portrait taken for the Christmas card.

As I was sitting on the couch with my little family here, I realized that it is going to be 64 degrees on Friday. Can I expect another “spring” day in the park? As my friend Casey would say:

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am beside myself with excitement and can barely type.